Do you want to know how to win him back? Make him show you the affection he once did when you first started dating?
Update: Thank you so much for all the support and positive responses! I am really, really glad that my article has helped you readers!
I have counseled numerous women on how to win him back during my career and everytime, without fail, I would teach them one of the psychological techniques as taught in the book ‘Get Him Back Forever’ (See P.S below). Why? Simply because it works and I feel so happy for them whenever they bring their boyfriends along to thank me.
Here I will introduce you to one of the powerful psychological technique as seen in the book.
Note: Before I show you one of the technique on how to win him back, it is VERY important that you take some time to read the 3 things you must know to win your ex back (it won’t take more than 60 seconds!).
Push/Pull Technique
This technique is best described by the lyrics “Desperado” by The Eagles: You Only Want The Ones That You Can’t Get. When one person pushes, another pulls.
When your boyfriend breaks up with you, he is ‘pushing’ you away. What most women do naturally is to ‘pull’ him back by saying ‘I will improve myself’, ‘Please don’t leave’, etc. The problem with this is that it makes you appear needy and desperate. The more you try to pull him, all the more he tries to push you away.
What you need to do, is to ‘push’ him away. This is psychologically very unnerving for him and in turn, makes him want to patch up and get you back.
One effective way to push him away is to stop being upset about the break-up. Stop posting sad posts or status updates about him. Don’t even talk to your close friends about how devastated you actually are (trust me, words spread fast).
Instead, be cheerful about life. Let him know that you are enjoying life even without him. If you had fun at the party last weekend, go ahead and post photos, status updates, or anything at all to announce to the world that you had great fun. This will get him to doubt himself and wonder why you’re getting over him so fast. And then, as you’re seemingly ‘pushing’ him away, enjoying life, he instinctively reacts by pulling you back.
Stop being a slave to your emotions. I hope this will help you as much as it has helped my readers. Goodluck!
P.S The technique I taught you above has proven useful to my readers, but just this technique alone, unfortunately, isn’t going to win him back. I recommend my readers to get ‘Get Him Back Forever‘ for more ways to use the Push/Pull technique, as well as other powerful techniques on how to win him back and love you like he did when you first started dating.
I have been one of the loyal readers of your work and I want to thank you so much Jane. I don’t think there will be another relationship psychologist that is willing to share his/her experience.
Keep it up!
THANK YOU JANE!! (hugging boyfriend and typing
)
Great tip jane. Many girls always fall into this mistake where they become so clingy to their ex-boyfriend after he left. This method is just wonderful.